Are you living your life on autopilot?
As some of you know I’ve officially started my business as a therapist and helping practitioner last year.
I wholeheartedly committed to helping others to overcome mental and emotional limitations so they can consciously create a more fulfilling life and experience more love, joy and abundance.
I’ve been on my healing, learning and spiritual journey for more than 14 years but since I stepped into my “role”, my experience was taken to a completely different level.
Last year and especially the last few months were extremely intense for me, in a positive way, one deep transformation followed by the other, expanding in ways I couldn’t have imagined and it looks like this is just the beginning of what is possible, for me and for many of us, as new times are unfolding.
The way I see myself, others and life itself evolved tremendously.
I’ve arrived at a completely different understanding of who we are and how we create our life, more precisely our personal reality through our personality: out of our old patterns, thoughts, emotions, beliefs, behaviour, values and identity. Most of the time completely unconsciously, like robots in human suits, completely not aware of what’s going on.
We try so hard to change our life but with no intention to change ourselves, the way we think, what we believe, what we do and how we do it, our values and who we want to be.
After years of trying to figure out how to use the Law of attraction to “get” everything I perceived to lack and so wanted to have, I’ve finally understood its real role and nature.
I can see now why it didn’t work at the time and why it’s not working for so many people. We are so off track. We completely misunderstood it.
It all begins with understanding that there is NoBody, NoGod out there who will deliver you what you want. There is NoBody outside of you.
You are IT! You are an expression of The thing you call life, it’s an expression, an extension of YOU. Everything you are, the TOTALITY of you.
It’s a translation of YOU into reality.
Our daily experiences bring contrast into our life. The more we experience unwanted things, the more we long for the opposite. We start desiring different experiences, better ones, we want to feel different, less worry, less struggle, less suffering, more joy, more freedom, more abundance, more love, more adventure, better life condition, better relationships, fulfilling job...
Then one day we step on the awakening path, we find out that after all, we might not be a victim of life, that we have a voice, that we can take responsibility for our life, we have power, we are told about the Law of attraction and how we can and we Do attract everything into our life, so we decide to create a different life, a better one, an amazing one.
And damn we try hard. I definitely did.
Soon we find ourselves in another struggle, more frustration, more pain, another trap but at least this is a promising one. It promises you Heaven on Earth, all the goodies you miss now. A big house, perfect relationship, abundance, travel, amazing friends, the business of the year, the car of your dreams.
You do everything you can, everything they teach you: you visualize, you write it down in a diary, you meditate, you create vision boards, mind movies, you go to therapy, workshops, listen to masterclasses, read hundreds of books, even go to India hoping that the Guru you’d heard about might help you to get Enlightened and then finally you are saved.
After years of trying, you start to realize something is off, it doesn't work: you still have the same old car, no perfect lover, no millions in the bank, no holidays around the world, no dream body, no dream home.
You feel more frustrated than before, disappointed, hopeless, sad, disillusioned, fed up and you conclude life is shit. It might work for others but it definitely does not work for you and you give up.
You are right, something is not OK.
But there is nothing wrong with you!
In order to understand what’s “wrong”, we have to go back to basics, Beyond Affirmations, the Power of Will and Positive Thinking
Your reality is created by your beliefs.
These generally subconscious beliefs are often the result of a lifetime of "programming" and represent a very powerful influence on human behavior. Studies in neuroscience indicate that at least 95% of our consciousness is subconscious reality.
The subconscious mind is the storehouse of our attitudes, values and beliefs. It is through these beliefs that we form our perceptions about the world and ourselves, and from these perceptions we develop our behaviors.
Usually it is the behaviors that limit us that we want to change. Often, the most effective way to change a behaviour is to change the subconscious beliefs that sustain it.
My work is to quickly identify and transform the beliefs that "limit" you into beliefs that "support" you in any area of your life.
Many people have subconsciously limiting beliefs in the area of spirituality, self-esteem, body and health issues, economic prosperity, relationships, or career.
Until you change these, your life can only reflect your programs.
PSYCH-K helps you communicate directly with your subconscious mind quickly and easily, while using "Brain-integrated" methods - exchanging self-limiting beliefs for supportive self-improvement beliefs!
Try it out for yourself. I’m based in Mallorca but I work all over the world, online.
When we came into this World, we were a bundle of Joy.
We were perfect, we were innocent, we were Pure Love but soon we realized we were dependent on our environment, circumstances and most importantly the people around us.
We tried to understand what’s going on, tried to integrate, to be accepted because our lives literally depended on it, we did this through our senses and emotions. Our thinking brain develops by age 7.
Seven years of decoding your environment and making meaning out of it.
We really tried hard but we just couldn’t understand the world of the adults, we didn’t understand their games, we didn’t understand their fears, their suffering, their thoughts and beliefs, their illogical behavior.
We eventually believed that everything happening around us was somehow our fault. We felt our parents suffering and we felt their pain but we didn’t understand and we believed it had to do with Us.
We’ve believed that everything that was happening around us, with us, to us is something we must have deserved. This is how we made sense of the world.
We just took it all in, no filters.
Early in our lives we believed that we should be different, we shouldn’t speak that much, we should shut up in the world of the adults, as our thoughts were not as valid as theirs, we don’t “know” enough, we should suppress our emotions, be a good boy or a good girl, never cry, never be angry, never fight back or protect ourselves and only do what we are told, when we are told.
We believed we are not good enough in the eyes of our loved ones because they were emotionally or physically inaccessible.
We believed that we are not lovable because we didn’t get the attention, the unconditional love, we so longed for.
We believed we are not important because there were times we only wanted to be seen, to be noticed, heard but our caretakers just didn’t have time.
We believed that we are not worthy because the “adults” many times used their power, their authority and control to push their will through.
We believed... and we still do!
No matter how old you are now, 25, 37, 43 or 68, deep inside in your core, you still believe you’re not enough, you are not lovable or important, you don’t deserve, you’re not worthy. Your whole life is a quest to prove that you are.
Your whole life is a quest to feel otherwise. Everything you do in your life, unconsciously is to prove the opposite.
Those are your core beliefs, your programs, bedded deep in your subconscious mind.
We are so not aware.
We secretly believe that if we just find the right partner we will finally feel loved, worthy and important. That if we attain the perfect body we will be wanted, desired and loved.
We secretly believe if we become successful, build a legacy and become a millionaire, we will finally be able to prove everybody that we do worth it, that we are enough, that we deserve.
We secretly believe that if we become Somebody, that people will acknowledge us and recognize our talents and worth and they will finally SEE us!
Listen to me! I’m here to tell you: No matter what happened to you, it was NOT your fault, you didn’t deserve it!
It was not my fault, I didn’t deserve it! My dear Sister it was not your fault, you didn’t deserve it! My dear Mother it was not your fault, you didn’t deserve it! Dad, you didn’t deserve it!
They were blind, they were deaf, they were acting out of pain and desperation. They did what they could.
You are Enough, You are amazing, You are so lovable, so precious and unique just because you are here! ...against all odds.
I feel your pain. I do. It took me years to heal, accept, release, let go, understand, forgive.
Until you change these beliefs you will never find lasting peace because your outside world can only reflect your inside world.
You can cover it up, you can pretend, you can play, you can lie to yourself and others, you can act, you can learn to use the Law of attraction, you can visualize and create mind movies and vision boards and read hundreds of books and do past life regression and future telling, and do yoga and meditation and talk about your pain to a psychologist for years, but the pain won’t go away.
But there is hope, freedom is closer than you think.
There is a way out and it doesn’t need to last decades. We can change these beliefs, easily and painlessly, right in your subconscious mind.
Only by changing your beliefs, can you change your life, your reality, the things, situation, people you attract in your life.
You are a survivor! You are amazing!
It’s time to heal, it’s time to remember.
We are in it together, as family, as nation, as humanity. The only way we can heal the future generations and the world is by healing ourselves first.
Feeling once again: whole and complete. Truly whole and complete and start loving ourselves.
It’s over! No need to prove anything to anybody anymore. No need to justify, no need for confirmation, no need to compromise.
It’s time to leave that bad and unloving relationship, get out of that job you hate and where they undervalue you, leave loneliness behind, it’s time to say goodbye to a sick body and to a “fine” life and start creating a new one.
It’s time to start living from WHO you really ARE!
It’s time to make your dreams come true, surround yourself with love, joy and abundance.
You can be free.
You are LOVED.