When we came into this World, we were a bundle of Joy.
We were perfect, we were innocent, we were Pure Love but soon we realized we were dependent on our environment, circumstances and most importantly the people around us.
We tried to understand what’s going on, tried to integrate, to be accepted because our lives literally depended on it, we did this through our senses and emotions. Our thinking brain develops by age 7.
Seven years of decoding your environment and making meaning out of it.
We really tried hard but we just couldn’t understand the world of the adults, we didn’t understand their games, we didn’t understand their fears, their suffering, their thoughts and beliefs, their illogical behavior.
We eventually believed that everything happening around us was somehow our fault. We felt our parents suffering and we felt their pain but we didn’t understand and we believed it had to do with Us.
We’ve believed that everything that was happening around us, with us, to us is something we must have deserved. This is how we made sense of the world.
We just took it all in, no filters.
Early in our lives we believed that we should be different, we shouldn’t speak that much, we should shut up in the world of the adults, as our thoughts were not as valid as theirs, we don’t “know” enough, we should suppress our emotions, be a good boy or a good girl, never cry, never be angry, never fight back or protect ourselves and only do what we are told, when we are told.
We believed we are not good enough in the eyes of our loved ones because they were emotionally or physically inaccessible.
We believed that we are not lovable because we didn’t get the attention, the unconditional love, we so longed for.
We believed we are not important because there were times we only wanted to be seen, to be noticed, heard but our caretakers just didn’t have time.
We believed that we are not worthy because the “adults” many times used their power, their authority and control to push their will through.
We believed... and we still do!
No matter how old you are now, 25, 37, 43 or 68, deep inside in your core, you still believe you’re not enough, you are not lovable or important, you don’t deserve, you’re not worthy. Your whole life is a quest to prove that you are.
Your whole life is a quest to feel otherwise. Everything you do in your life, unconsciously is to prove the opposite.
Those are your core beliefs, your programs, bedded deep in your subconscious mind.
We are so not aware.
We secretly believe that if we just find the right partner we will finally feel loved, worthy and important. That if we attain the perfect body we will be wanted, desired and loved.
We secretly believe if we become successful, build a legacy and become a millionaire, we will finally be able to prove everybody that we do worth it, that we are enough, that we deserve.
We secretly believe that if we become Somebody, that people will acknowledge us and recognize our talents and worth and they will finally SEE us!
Listen to me! I’m here to tell you: No matter what happened to you, it was NOT your fault, you didn’t deserve it!
It was not my fault, I didn’t deserve it! My dear Sister it was not your fault, you didn’t deserve it! My dear Mother it was not your fault, you didn’t deserve it! Dad, you didn’t deserve it!
They were blind, they were deaf, they were acting out of pain and desperation. They did what they could.
You are Enough, You are amazing, You are so lovable, so precious and unique just because you are here! ...against all odds.
I feel your pain. I do. It took me years to heal, accept, release, let go, understand, forgive.
Until you change these beliefs you will never find lasting peace because your outside world can only reflect your inside world.
You can cover it up, you can pretend, you can play, you can lie to yourself and others, you can act, you can learn to use the Law of attraction, you can visualize and create mind movies and vision boards and read hundreds of books and do past life regression and future telling, and do yoga and meditation and talk about your pain to a psychologist for years, but the pain won’t go away.
But there is hope, freedom is closer than you think.
There is a way out and it doesn’t need to last decades. We can change these beliefs, easily and painlessly, right in your subconscious mind.
Only by changing your beliefs, can you change your life, your reality, the things, situation, people you attract in your life.
You are a survivor! You are amazing!
It’s time to heal, it’s time to remember.
We are in it together, as family, as nation, as humanity. The only way we can heal the future generations and the world is by healing ourselves first.
Feeling once again: whole and complete. Truly whole and complete and start loving ourselves.
It’s over! No need to prove anything to anybody anymore. No need to justify, no need for confirmation, no need to compromise.
It’s time to leave that bad and unloving relationship, get out of that job you hate and where they undervalue you, leave loneliness behind, it’s time to say goodbye to a sick body and to a “fine” life and start creating a new one.
It’s time to start living from WHO you really ARE!
It’s time to make your dreams come true, surround yourself with love, joy and abundance.
You can be free.
You are LOVED.